Last Sunday (19th Sept) I happen to join him for Mass (Private) as I had Conjunctivitis (eye-infection). In the mass I realized that his liking has one more tag, i.e., an emotional feeling for me as both of us have ‘departed fathers’ and ‘aging mothers’. Thus a bond develops to attach to, feel for and give a thought to.
The love of mother and absence of father were common to us, thus we could sympathize with or at times feel close to other. I know Dean was rather close to his father and also to mother, as he shared this to me few times. He knows me well and of family as a moderator. Thus, soft corner as I thought was just due to my being respectful, fair dealings or my qualities were only partially correct.
Other than this he likes me as a Tribal (himself has disclosed), because he worked in Orrisa. Thus, his likeness and bond-ness, all the more.
Thus all factors makeup for this soft corner, yet I have felt this soft corner excludes academic and official matters. Surely no familiarization when exercising the authority,
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| jesus my lord |
Hey! Now when ever you feel ‘a soft corner’ for someone? Check it out!!
I thought now I must give a second check to the idea before feeling soft corner again!!
Simple getting me!!!
